mokondo

Indonesian

Etymology

Blend of modal (“capital”) +‎ kontol (“cock, dick”) +‎ doang (“just, only”), literally “only relying on [their] dicks”.

Adjective

mokondo

1. (of a man) not providing anything in a relationship; deadbeat
   • 2025 December 6, “Diduga Telantarkan Istri, Suami Mokondo di Jambi Resmi Dilaporkan ke Polresta Jambi”, in Jambi Update:

     Melihat fenomena ini, warganet pun ramai-ramai melabeli sang suami dengan sebutan “suami mokondo,” merujuk pada perilaku yang dinilai hanya menumpang hidup dari istri dan keluarganya.

     Seeing this phenomenon, netizens have been busy labeling the man as a "deadbeat husband," referring to his behavior that is seen as only leeching on his wife and her family.

Lingala

Noun

mokondo

1. tail