tough love

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tough love (uncountable)

  1. (idiomatic) The compassionate use of stringent disciplinary measures, to attempt to improve someone's behavior.
    • 1995 April 12, Jane E. Brody, “Personal Health: Intervening with someone who drinks too much”, in New York Times, retrieved 6 April 2015:
      [H]e found himself surrounded by a circle of caring friends and relatives who told him one by one that they loved him but could not continue to live with him or be his friend the way he was. As one of his closest friends recalled, it was a show of tough love.
    • 2002 August 19, Tim Padgett, Andrew Downie, “Bush's Lost Continent”, in Time, retrieved 6 April 2015:
      [W]hen it came to Latin America's economic travails, Bush adhered to the principle of tough love: no more bailouts.
    • 2023 January 2, Maureen O’Connor, “The Etiquette Guru Who Broke Up With a Boyfriend Over Text”, in The New York Times[1], →ISSN:
      And she offers tough love: “There are no ugly women in the world, just lazy ones,” she says during a “Mind Your Manners” hygiene lesson in which she instructs her students to smell their used dental floss to find out if they have bad breath.

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tough love (third-person singular simple present tough loves, present participle tough loving, simple past and past participle tough loved)

  1. Alternative form of tough-love
    • 1986, Joseph A. Muldoon, James F. Crowley, One step ahead: early-intervention strategies for adolescent drug problems, page 137:
      She could not be "tough loved" into improving her behavior and saddling her with full responsibility for her problems would have been inappropriate.
    • 1997, Anthony Walsh, Correctional assessment, casework, and counseling, page 241:
      These folks "tough loved" Jim into sobriety.
    • 2013, Jeffery P Dennis, Queering Teen Culture: All-American Boys and Same-Sex Desire in Film and Television, page 33:
      The biggest fear of the adults and the audience was that they would fall prey to the gangsters who offered cars, zoot suits, and dough in exchange for a few minor “jobs,” but all they needed was a caring newspaper reporter, cop, or priest to tough love them onto the straight and narrow.