kill the messenger
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- (idiomatic) To blame a problem on whoever reported it; to hold somebody accountable a problem because he/she brought attention to it.
- I know you won't like this news, but please don't kill the messenger.
1893 December 12, Rev. B. Minard, “Sunday in the Churches”, Lewiston Evening Journal, Maine:
- To disbelieve the message and seek to kill the messenger will not destroy the message