have one's cake and eat it too

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(idiomatic) To seek to have two things which are mutually incompatible (such as eating a piece of cake and yet still possessing that piece for future use).

Do you seriously want to break up with her and still have sex with her? You can't have your cake and eat it too!

This expression is found almost exclusively in some form of the saying or proverb:

You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

to seek to have two things which are mutually incompatible

Alemannic German: de Füfer u's Weggli ha (have the 5p and the roll)
Chinese:
- Mandarin: 魚與熊掌不可兼得 cmn(cmn), 鱼与熊掌不可兼得 cmn(cmn) (yú yǔ xióng zhǎng bù kě jiān) ("One cannot get fish and bear's paw at the same time."), 又要馬兒好，又要馬兒不吃草 cmn(cmn), 又要马儿好，又要马儿不吃草 cmn(cmn) (yòu yào mǎr hǎo, yòu yào mǎr bù chī cǎo) (You want a good horse, but won't give it grass to eat.)
Danish: man kan ikke både blæse og have mel i munden da(da)
Finnish: pitää kakku ja syödä se fi(fi)
French: avoir le beurre et l'argent du beurre fr(fr) (to have the butter and the money from [selling] the butter)