push someone's buttons

English

Alternative forms

• press someone's buttons

Etymology

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Verb

push someone's buttons (third-person singular simple present pushes someone's buttons, present participle pushing someone's buttons, simple past and past participle pushed someone's buttons)

1. (informal) To do specific things to anger someone (or, less commonly, to sexually arouse or otherwise elicit a strong reaction from them), especially intentionally or maliciously.

   You really knew how to push my buttons.

   • 2019 April 10, Cheryl Maguire, “How to Stop Thinking Your Teen Is ‘Pushing Your Buttons’”, in The New York Times‎^[1], →ISSN:

     I end up cleaning up after her, which I’ve repeatedly told her makes me upset. She’s a smart, talented kid. So why does she keep pushing my buttons?

Usage notes

• Particularly used of actions that affect the recipient but not other people, such as bringing up a particular upsetting topic or performing an irritating activity.

Synonyms

• trigger (“to spark a response”)

Translations

Translations

• French: taper sur le système (fr)
• Spanish: buscarle las cosquillas

See also

• get on someone's nerves
• pet peeve
• push the right buttons