top from the bottom

English

Verb

top from the bottom (third-person singular simple present tops from the bottom, present participle topping from the bottom, simple past and past participle topped from the bottom)

1. (BDSM) To make demands while supposedly in a submissive role.
   • 2009, K. A. Mitchell, Collision Course, page 97:

     Aaron didn't appreciate being topped from the bottom, but Joey's voice was so rough Aaron didn't care who was running the show.

   • 2012, Cara Carnes, Passion's Training, page 71:

     “Topping from the bottom is a very bad habit to get into. Perhaps this will break you of it.”